#1 Secret To Dating Younger Women
If you are one of the many men who ask me what EXACTLY you should do differently in order to successfully date younger women – you’ve got to watch this video. This will give you a big push in the right direction – and it starts with knowing the difference between beauty and brains (even though I say “brains” once in here when I clearly mean “beauty” — see if you can find the gaffe). Enjoy!
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I can’t speak on the Ageless Attraction program because I don’t have it as of yet, but I CAN tell you to go for it without any hesitation whatsoever should you encounter an interested younger woman.
I’ve dated younger and older gals–including a raving beauty 23 year old quality woman when I was 47–and the bottom line is your age and hers is no guarantee of a good or bad relationship whether short term or long. So if you like what certain younger gals have to offer, and you’re both interested…don’t hold back!
As a young guy I got one word “MILFS!”
Particularly like the mindset of being grander in who you are, i.e King vs. Prince.
Sometimes it takes another person — a teacher, a good friend who tells you the truth NO MATTER WHAT — or a great woman by your side — to awaken you to the man you can be. In fact, it’s my experience that this is a daily occurrence. Which is why I surround myself ONLY with people who uplift me. Great friends. Great teachers. Great women. Everyone else — ruthlessly – buh-bye.
Glad I checked out the site. You are saying things that have been floating around in my mind since I turned 30. I was still able to attract younger women, as young as 19 when I was 39. But subconsciously I was shooting myself in the foot. I’m 44 now and I remember thinking back then how awkward I would feel around her friends. I even removed myself from a particular college aged ‘friend’s’ myspace because I felt out of so out of place. I used to have all the confidence in the world when it came to women, I never had a problem in that department. But with age came introspect and I gradually began to lose confidence because I didn’t want to be the creepy ‘old guy’…and as we all know with confidence goes attraction. Thank you for the valuable work you are doing in making us mature guys realize that there is a ‘need’ for us to fill when it comes to younger women.
Ha ha! Bless them all. I actually dated a woman for a while whose son kept getting into fights in jr hi because she was voted School Milf. She, of course, loved it! (I did too).
Yes! There are brilliant, vivacious, evolved 23 year olds and there are constricted, reactionary, uptight, controlling 46 year olds. This is why age DOESN’T matter – or at least it’s not a defining factor. In the program, Ageless Attraction, though, I do lay it on the line — you WILL get nasty comments thrown at you by non-younger women if you are seen dating younger women — and I give you specific compassionate guidelines to turn what could be a nasty interchange into an opportunity for you to open your heart even further — and be the king you need to become.
Yes! It’s a good point you make. The kind of confidence women look for in a man of 44 vs 19 is an entirely different kind of confidence. It’s more like “character track record.” It’s actions over words. There should be a new word for this kind of confidence. I’ll mull it. If anyone has any suggestions, let’s create it! — Adam
Good stuff. Thanks.
B
(Just turned 35 on April 5th)
real
is it ok to use a scills like being an artist to meet women? or is it , to quote my duoghter being a “creaper”.
lol. First of all — anything you do will seem to your daughter like you are a creeper, so there is no victory awaiting there. And yes, of course, any activity in which you show enthusiasm, passion or authority will create attraction in women. A core principle of the “Ageless Attraction” program is showing you how to refine and articulate your passions, as well as your personal qualities, to distinguish you as a man worthy of admiration. No matter what your daughter says.
adam i must say i found your short video imformative and did not realise the reason for so many girls wanting to know more about me. i am 59yrs old, but have had some bad luck financialy and now am totaly broke and struggling to find employment, wish the employers thought like some of the young women i’ve come across. well that is my problem, money and it is very embarrasing. what would you advise in a situation like this. even though i have nothing i still have some gorgeous girls want to be with me. how would one overcome this situation. i know get a job and money, hehe!! but realy, what else?
A lot of great info keep the video’s coming.
thanks Al. that’s my plan. I like this format. Just talking and sharing what I’ve learned.
Roughly 80% of women would want you to be creating cash. The other 20% might have enough and be willing to trade that for the joy and provocation and warmth of your company — assuming not making money doesn’t get you down. But 100% need you to be inspired about what you are doing with your life, whether it is art, service, music, teaching, or even inspired reading and talking, if you were engaging enough about it. If you feel inspired, you will draw a woman. If you feel disspirited, you will not (with exceptions of savior-types). Your passion will carry over into your carriage.
That said, it’s hard to keep your chin up without income — even if you are cool with being a kept man for a while. So rather than look for employment — create your own. This is a bit of a longer story and I’ll be getting into that. But the bottom line is that with the web tools today ANYBODY who chooses to can create income from the net — including a LOT of income. See: Gary Vaynerchuk, Tim Ferris, Kevin Wilke, Yanik Silver, Ryan Lee, Michael Dunlop — look them up. Also check out my new blog — http://generationentrepreneur.com/blog/?p=3
Adam I believe I have a word that might help with us men 40 and older; Distinguished…. Distinguished Confidence. We are set apart or above others. to preceive a difference, to take notice of.
I like “Distinguished.” Although it sounds a little silver-hair-y, it does bring up the alternative — indistinguishable — which most of the formulaic attention-getting devices of younger “pick up” feels like.
Hello guys, my problem is a little different. I look much than I am (39 years old). I attrack very young girls. The problem is when know my age. Sometimes they say “oh, you ver old”. What to do?
As a distinguished,just turned 58 widower without children, I see this program with other information as well,helping me create oportunities with women in general. I see that confidence is key to every situation and knowledge is part of confidence.Knowledge practiced correctly equals confidence and some money helps.
Hey Adam,
Thanks for this video. It gave me some excellent insights into why younger women are attracted to me. I’m 56 and seem to have an easy time with women in their 30s. But I’m uneasy with the age gap many times. I think I’ll relax a little more after hearing your insights. Thanks.
btw: the video and audio became increasingly out of sync as I watched this video. Fairly irritating. You might want to check that. No one else here mentioned it so I’m not sure if I’m the only one.
In any case, thanks for these insights.
stay sunny,
Gregory
“Stay sunny” – I like that. Very California. And having spent half my childhood shoveling snow off driveways for 2 dollars an hour, it’s a great motto. I’ll take it. Like so many things in our world — old distinctions matter less and less. We all carve our OWN reality — let the fusty strictures of Victorians and prurient blowhards be damned. It’s your life. Create it in your vision’s image! I seem to remember something about “life, liberty and pursuit of happiness” being um — a natural right. Not “zombieism, social conformity and the pursuit of social acceptance. Jr. High is over. Your life. Your way. As long as you’re lifting up the people you meet on your journey.
As for sync probs – haven’t heard about that. Anyone else having trouble? Please let me know.
You can say — “oh, are you more comfortable in the arms of inexperienced men?” But mean it. Make sure that you are masterful in the erotic arts.
sounds very interesting. I will be 50 this year (already? !) .
I like your style, at least you have the balls to get up and talk to your audience.
My question is: I am 51,ready to be divorced, and have to go into the arena.
I am still attractive and have always been hit on by women while married (damn near raped on occaision), but once it goes through I don’t see that happening anymore.
Can a guy like me still have a chance with a younger cool women, do you think, or dont waste my time trying unless I am rich.
If so, how much younger, I mean likely not extreme examples.
The club I go to the owner is a descent looking rich over 50 year old guy with a very hot 28 year old bartender-it blows me away. She is the sweetest women in the world.
Inspiration, please!
Hey Gart thanks for the note — yeah — I like to make the videos. It’s so easy to hide on the web. I think everyone with a brain wants there to be more two-way communication. The men in the ACI community tend to be pretty smart and savvy — and I want everyone to share their best ideas and experience with each toher.
I would UTTERLY challenge your idea that you won’t be approached or “near-raped” (lol) after you’re divorced. Yes, women find married men sexy because they offer the image of stability and commitment. About 6 months before I was divorced, a gorgeous, statuesque redhead who we were friends with came up to me with the saddest eyes and said, “where can I meet a man exactly like you?” I was dumbfounded. I was thinking, “you mean sexually frustrated and self-hating?” but I think I managed to say, “hummana-hummana-hummana” or something equally intelligent. About a week after my separation, I ran into her at a party and that night was my initiation into the joys of single life, high above the SF Valley on a Mulholland Rd. turnout.
So just because you’re going to be single, doesn’t mean you instantly turn unattractive. As I show in the second part of the book, Ageless Attraction, as a FULL man — you pull together everything you’ve already been — dutiful partner, wild youth, striver — into a complete identity that encompasses them all — but is LIMITED BY NONE.
Having been married is another ASSET in your quiver. There are wonderful women who see your experience as an ASSET. So first things first (and this is Module 1/Month 1 of the Ageless Attraction System) — you’ve got to REVERSE your thinking. You are the one with the gifts to give. Her youth is hungry for what you have to offer — knowledge, wisdom, equanimity, patience, sexual depth, leadership.
There are 25 year old women who will value you far more than a 25 year old guy. As well as 35 and 45 year old women. Hey, they like to play with young guys from time to time too (just like we do(, but, they tell me, they almost always return to men who are older for that real depth of experience, sexual and otherwise. You job is to hone your emotional, mental, sexual and social skillsets so that you can offer what the best women are seeking.
THAT… is the the true wealth they want.
The understanding that I have come to embrace is that the entire process is about becoming a Great Man… not simply a good man or worse, a “nice”guy. Between men & women, as men, we make the critical mistake of becoming less than we are in order to “please” our women. In turn, the attraction she feels begins to fade as her man becomes less than he IS; often less than he was in the beginning. Maintaining the qualities of a Great Man is key to long-term relationships… dating wonderful women and, in my case living with the woman of my dreams who happens to be 22 years younger.
Age is really not that important. An 18 – 21 y/o girl being in a relationship with a 30 or 35+ guy is more common than a lot of people think.
As long as their is love, that’s all that matters……….
Thank you Adam, great advice !
Please excuse my English as I am not native rather I am a lerner………..
Yes, Dear age not affect in that kind of relation. My experiance is like that. I am 35, I am enjoying my sexual life better than when was even 21. Only one thing is criminal for us is decease which can affect us badly and harm our life to anything. We start lossing everthing when we are not healthy. I think rightly said age is jus a number. Just we have to maintain our health…………………………
Well said, Pavan… health is first — that is why I included a whole section in Ageless Attraction on maximizing VITALITY.
As a descriptor, especially for the experienced man coming into the fullness of his powers, I like “magnanimous”–I don’t know how well it fits with “confidence” but I believe that magnanimity can only be acquired with age and experience. And I believe it is just this type of high-mindedness and nobility that is lacking in so many men these days–and not just the younger ones. It seems this is something that these programs also help to build.
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